Monday, May 31, 2010

In Memoriam


Your silent tents of green
We deck with fragrant flowers;
Yours has the suffering been,
The memory shall be ours.
~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Peace to each manly soul that sleepeth;
Rest to each watchful eye that weepeth.
~Thomas Moore



Thanks to all the soldiers past and present, especially those who fought and died, but also those who served and lived...especially my dad and grandpa.

Fun in the Sun

We had our first 100 degree day earlier this week, and we had our second one today. It looks like starting on Thursday, we'll be in triple digits for the foreseeable future. Nothing to do about that but spend time in the pool!

This is Nicco's new "pencil" jump

Giving Daddy a double five!

Launch position...

Flying!
He's such a little fish. I'm really glad we have the pool and can just hop in and hop out on a whim without having to deal with people.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

The World is Mud-Luscious and Puddle Wonderful

We had an "off day" today, a day in which computers and televisions are off except for when I work. Absent of the constant barrage of super fantastic bright shiny soft cuddly cool things you can't live without advertised on T.V., Nicco played with dirt.



When we hiked in Sedona, he filled his little water bottle with soft sand along the trail. I told him that when we got home we could sift out the leaves and rocks and sticks and put his soft and pretty red sand into a jar. Since he "loves sand, you know" I thought that he might eventually add different layers of sand from different places we visit.
We took his sand outside and sifted it twice to get rid of all the chunks. He asked for some tools to move the sand from the stainless steel bowl back into his water bottle so he could pour it into the jar more easily. I found plastic spoons and little condiment cups and that was all he needed for almost two hours of fun.
He was very serious and meticulous. He wrote letters and lines in his sand, he set the little cups of sand in the sun to wait for rain so flowers could pop up (but moved them after a short wait when he realized that on our 100 degree day with no clouds that no rain would fall, nevermind the fact that there were no seeds in that dirt.) He tried to build a sand castle, but the fine sand without water didn't hold the shape of his little cups. The cups were his "little guys" which he fed spoonfuls of dirt because "They're just babies, they don't know how to eat yet."
He made me feel like a kid myself, and I remembered making mud pies with my sisters and drinking mint tea made from the stagnant water pooled in the bottom of my dad's little yellow sailboat and crushed mint leaves that grew along the side of the house. (GROSS! I can't believe I did that.) Playing in the dirt with my kid was rejuvenating. I guess that is why grown ups like gardens.

I Did It

Out of sheer stubbornness, I wanted to hold off until June before I turned on my air conditioner. It is May 29, for heaven's sake! Surely the Queen of Stubborn could make it 3 more days! But alas, we hit triple digits in Tucson yesterday and it got up to 87 inside and that is just down right intolerable, even after cooling off in the pool. I have to say, it is surprising how cool and refreshing 83 feels on a 100 degree day!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Tuesday, 8:00 p.m.

It's Tuesday. It's almost 8:00. I don't know what to do. I'm feeling a little lostie lost, without my Lostie Lost. Whimper, sigh.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Lostie Lost

My friend from church called me this morning and invited us over for dinner tonight. I said "Oh, Stephanie...you don't watch Lost, do you?" She said "You don't have TiVo, do you?" No, no I don't, and even if I did, I didn't want to be late to the TV event of the decade.

I told Patrice that I would cook today, so I could make a Lostie Lost meal.

Sushi appetizer, an homage to the raw fish snack Jin made in the first season.
Hawaiian pork chops, my wild boar substitute. (They didn't have wild boar at Safeway) (And Hawaiian, because, duh.) Patrice was highly offended that I put pineapple in food, but he condescended to eat it anyway.

Palm trees, because I have them.
I miss my Losties already! That was a great show; fun, smart, challenging, deep, philosphical, mythical, spiritual, clever, moving.

I feel like Nicco did when he and his Daddy finished Mario, and like I do every time I finish a great story, but I think Dr. Seuss sums it up nicely for me:

"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
(P.S. But I'm not crying because it's over, I'm crying because it was so sad! And happy! And it's over!)

(Air) Quotes of the Day

This morning Nicco came into our bed for Sunday Morning Snuggles. As we chatted about what to do today, I asked him what he would like for breakfast. He said "I'm fine for now, I'm not even hungry. You know I'm not hungry until my (insert air quotes here) 'tummy growls' (end air quotes)"

(Use of the air quotes makes me wonder what he REALLY means by "tummy growls")

Fast forward to the morning couch snuggle, sippy, and show. The Daddy emerged from his bedroom and walked menacingly toward Nicco, with his hands in tickling position. Nicco said "I'm trying to watch a show here. What are you looking for anyway, Trouble?"

Friday, May 21, 2010

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Variation on a Theme

QUESTION of the day:

"Mommy, do you have Kung Fu skills?"

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Family Tree

Nicco colored his family tree at school today. I love it! His people pictures actually have discernable features. He put all the people in our family in the tree..."Me," "Dad," and "Mom."

There are a couple extras though...Mrs. Petra said that he put some eggs in the tree, and speculated that Nicco thinks trees should have nests, and therefore eggs as well. I told her about our quail nest and sure enough, when I asked him about the eggs, he said it is for our egg babies that will be hatching soon.

I'm worried about our quail family again. The mama hasn't been sitting on the eggs the last several times I've checked. I fear my small boy may have frightened her away. He came in crying the other day because he "scared the mama! I was being real quiet, I promise!" he said. I hope his frequent check-ups haven't made her abandon the nest. I guess we will find out.

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Sedona (aka Supporting Arizona Through Tourism)

Last week Patrice worked six days so he could take an extra day this weekend. We decided to head north to Sedona. I spent the week researching the area to find fun and exciting things to do, knowing I would overbook us and we would not have time to do all the things on my list. (We'll have to go back) We made two stops on our way to the hotel; Montezuma Castle and Montezuma well. The "Castle" is an 800 year old, 45 room high-rise apartment of the Sinagua people, located along the banks of Beaver Creek. It is amazing to realize how primitive America was even 500 years ago. If you think about Europe 2000 years ago, the contrast in technological, cultural, and social development is incredible. If it weren't for our European ancestors, people in this part of the world might still live in condos like this! Well done, conquistadors. Well done.
The size and color of the Arizona Sycamore set it apart from other trees in the area. It only grows in riparian corridors (word of the day!) and it gets its color from its constantly shedding bark. The main beams of the castle are made from Arizona Sycamore.

I am actually not sure what these parts of the castle were used for. Bad me! I didn't read the sign. There were some large stone tools that looked like mano y matate, but I do remember an exhibit in the museum that suggested they were actually locks on pens. These might be the pens. Too bad I didn't pay attention!
Swallow nests
Nicco and Daddy on the trail.

Tickling each other with fuzzy grasses.

Nicco got a little tired hiking up the hill on the way to the next stop, Montezuma Well.

The well is a collapsed underground limestone cave with more than a million gallons of water flowing through it each day. The water is 76 degrees all year long and has a very high concentration of carbon dioxide, so there are no fish living in the well.

There are remains of a cliff dwelling along this wall above the well.

(I forgot to rotate this picture, oh well.) Nicco and I taking a rest at the top of the hill above the well.

We drove through Coconino National Forest, Red Rock Country as it is known, on the way to Sedona. It is really quite spectacular; one of those places that defy description and must be seen in person to fully appreciate. This is the view outside the patio of the casita we stayed in at Enchantment Resort.

That rock formation (again, the view from our patio...) is on top of one of Sedona's vortices...pockets of energy that attract mystics, psychics, and other weirdos from all over the world. The spa at Enchantment was named the #1 spa in the world and includes treatments like past life regression, aura photography, astrology, numerology, and palm reading in addition to the traditional massage/facial treatments you would find at other spas.

Nicco and his daddy enjoying the view

Nicco's giving me a foot massage. This treatment was in our price range, unlike the treatments at the world's #1 spa.
After our picnic lunch on the patio and getting settled, we headed into town to check out Tlaquepaque, an artsy shopping center with unique galleries and shops.

Nicco's favorite was the Christmas store. There were some amazing hand carved nativities.

A wicker and wood burro statue in one of the courtyards

Window shopping

Bell tower

Resting by one of many fountains

A courtyard and bridge

This shopping center had a very European village feel to it. There were surprises around every corner.

Another view of the shopping center.

Garden sculptures

Rock furniture

One of the shops built around an enormous sycamore tree.

One of the many beautiful, huge, interesting doors

And another one

We drove around a bit and pulled off the road for some scenic photo opportunities


Nicco, with the best seat in the house!




A little river of flowers on the path up to the Chapel of the Holy Cross

Garden and saints in the chapel courtyard

Outside the chapel (we didn't go in because it closed moments after we arrived. We might not have dilly-dallyed so much had we known the hours of operation)

Nicco resting in the courtyard. He did a lot of resting. We had to call some of our adventures "missions" in order to convince him that we were indeed on an adventure. He asked me several times if there was "resting on this mission." He found resting spots on each of our missions.

A small private bungalow across from the chapel. Patrice was tempted to leave a resume...

The view of the chapel from the road. Marguerite Bruswig Straude was inspired to build a chapel on a visit to the Empire State Building in 1932. She searched all over Europe and America for an ideal location to build a structure that would glorify her Creator and offer her thanksgiving for all she and her family had received. She and her husband stumbled upon this spot in Sedona and thought it was perfect for what she had in mind. It was completed in 1956 and is currently maintained and administered by the Diocese of Phoenix and Saint John Vianney parish.
After completing all our missions for the day, we headed back to the hotel for a much anticipated swim in the pool and a relaxing evening on the patio. The next morning, we got up and took a little hike through Boynton Canyon, open only to guests at Enchantment.

That is the resort behind us.

I had to tickle Nicco to get him to smile for his daddy. (There was LOTS of resting on this mission)

Again, Nicco with the best seat in the house!

I don't know what kind of bush this was, but the wood was very interesting...it had red and white bark twisted around each other, and the outer red bark was so hard, it was like petrified wood. Patrice wanted to take a branch for a walking stick, but we just took a picture instead.

Resting on a tree stump

Nicco stopped along the way to fill up his special water bottle with sand. ("You know, I really like sand," he said.)

A tipi on the resort property.

A perfect spot for one last rest on the way back to the car.

Balancing

We stopped at an alien diner (Red Planet...Nicco liked the galaxy decor and all the aliens around the place) for brunch and at a little pottery/outdoor market on the way out of town. Nicco had reached his limit and was happy to be on our "long ride" so he could watch Kung Fu Panda. He entertained us with Kung Fu battle noises all the way home.